Apakah relationnya 2 benda itu???

Lihat gambar-gambar ini...saya sgt sukaa gambar ini..

Pertama, mungkin kerana warna putih itu menaikkan seri keemasan & kilauan bullion2 ini..

Kedua, gambar2 ini mmg nampak exclusive..
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Lama baru saya dapat fikir...apa kata all the bagaholics out there, who impatiently waiting for the end year sale every year, just to add new designer handbags into their collection..invest or save your money in GOLD at the beginning of the year & keep it safe & sound somewhere, and sell it at the end of that year just to get a 25-27% appreciation in value (convert into money lahhh)???

Does it sound so purrrffecttt for you?? (or for me as well??hehehe)

With RM6500 (lebih kurang harga untuk 50grams bar) invested, in December I think it's gonna be RM6500 + 25% (taking into account 25% of gold appreciation-average-) = RM 8125.00, bear in mind that you don't have to add any more money each month to get this amount. Just keep & wait. Or if you dare enough to 'play', you can collect more if you know the method of buy low sell high in short terms. A few times gain during the whole year might end up in more saving you can make.

Jadi,every end of the year, kalau tak sayangkan gold bar itu..anda boleh jual/pajak kat mana2 ar-rahnu untuk dapatkan cash..dan langsung anda boleh ke mana2 designer boutique idaman untuk melangsaikan hajat yang tersimpan..hehehehe... But,kalau rasa2 dah 'jatuh hati' pada gold2 ni, simpan ajelah.. Pendek kata,bila akhir tahun menjelma..tanya apa kata hati?? Simpan atau shopping???

So, apa macam???Ada berani???

Islam is beautiful..

Assalamualaikum!

2-3 hari kebelakangan ni, saya rasa kurang sihat sikit. Nak kata tak sihat sangat, takde lah macam tu. Saya selalu malu kat Allah bila nak kata saya kurang sihat sebab of all the pink health that He gave me, why must I pot pet pot pet about being unwell for just a few days? Sebab itu jugak, saya selalu jawab, "baik,alhamdulillah" bila tiap kali orang tanya sihat ke saya, walaupun saya tgh demam! Cuma kali ni, saya rasa tak sihatnya saya berpunca daripada diri saya sendiri.. Dah about weeks jugak saya tak main tennis, means tak exercise lah tu.. So,badan pun rasa lemah je, tak bermaya lah jawabnya. Makan banyak jugak..heheh

Apa-apa pun, i wanna play safe. Saya banyakkan membaca ayat Qursi & 4 ayat terakhir surah al-Hasyr. Manalah tahu, syaitan di mana2 berpegang teguh pada janjinya untuk memporak-perandakan hidup kita kan. Terkena sekali membutakan saya selalu ambil langkah berjaga-jaga. dan siapa lagi nak jaga kita kalau bukan Tuhan yang Maha mengasihani & mengasihi kita.

Hahh?? Pregnant?? Kalau ye, maha syukur pada ya robbi. Tapi selagi takde missed period, saya malas nak berangan. Walaupun perut makin hari makin buncit, saya rasa kalau pegi scan pun nampak nasi, mee, roti macam-macam lah. Hahahhahaa.. Memang saya makan banyak sampaikan saya dapat penyakit peptic ulcer disease, non-serious one lah. Reason?? Terlebih makan..Huarrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Tu yang saya nak cuba kurangkan makan tapi sengsara yang amat sebab metabolism rate saya tinggi. Kejap kejap lapar.. Kaki pun dah start lenguh-lenguh, mungkin sebab banyak makan daging & seafood lately. Everytime I went for a blood check, kandungan uric acid saya tinggi sikit..sekarang ni tinggi banyak lah kot..hahaha.. Atas sebab-sebab ini semualah, tahun ni adalah masa yang sesuai untuk saya berpatah balik menjaga kurniaan Allah yang tak ternilai pada kita semua ni..JAGA KESIHATAN...

Saya sebenarnya dah buat satu lagi blog cuma saya belum officially launched. Kalau ada masa, jengah lah ke blog baru saya, http://lagilagiemas.blogspot.com , satu blog yang saya khususkan hanya berkaitan pelaburan yang boleh generate passive income saya & Mr.Hubby. Walaupun agak terlewat untuk memulakan profile2 pelaburan ni, tapi sekurang-kurangnya saya bersyukur pada Allah kerana dibukakan jalan ni untuk kami. Buat masa ni, saya concentrate pada matlamat untuk melabur dalam Emas, Hartanah, Arowana & Sarang Burung Layang-layang. Saya berdoa semoga diberikan kekuatan & kebijakan dalam menguruskan segala pelaburan2 kami ini dan saya betul-betul berharap, semoga kawan-kawan atau sesiapa sahaja boleh mendapat manfaat atas segala yang saya paparkan di blog itu nanti. Mulanya taknak share dgn umum sebab takut dikatakan riak pulak, tapi fikir punya fikir, kalau ilmu yang saya ada tak dikongsikan, kedekut namanya. Lagipun ilmu Allah sesiapa sahaja boleh manfaatkan. Apa salahnya sharing jika itu dapat mengkayakan kawan-kawan saya. Terpulang pada individu untuk menilai, kalau buruk prasangka mereka..hiduplah dengan prasangka yang buruk itu. Untuk yang lain-lain, marilah kita sama-sama buat duit, cari harta kekayaan.

Carilah kekayaan seolah-olah kau akan hidup 1000 tahun lagi

dan

beramal ibadat lah seolah-olah kau akan mati esok hari!!

Simple & practical.

Islam is indeed a syumul religion to all.

Alhamdulillah saya dilahirkan sebagai seorang Islam.

Happy practicing!!

A Peaceful Revenge..

Assalamualaikum everyone!!!!

Right at this moment:-

:: there's a lot of stuff to be packed for tomorrow's trip

:: few clothes to be ironed

:: a lunch to cook

:: a book to read (a must!!)

:: eyebrow to be trimmed (ni pun masuk juga ke??)

But when I dropped by my own blog, I feel like telling you something, which I, still, don't have any idea what to write. Sometimes, when we have so much to say, it turns us wordless. The words seem like running fast just in the head, without us being able to utter them for others to hear. Maybe it is destined just for us to know???

Lately, I used to think of 2 words & they keep on coming to my mind again & again..

D.E.N.D.A.M

&

K.E.T.E.N.A.N.G.A.N

Jika hati masih dendam, bagaimana mungkin ketenangan datang??

Ketenangan adalah satu perasaan yg tidak ternilai harganya, dan sungguh tinggi nikmatnya. SAKINAH.. Semua orang inginkan ketenangan. Everybody. We long for this, we work hard to get this, we look for this here & there.. We try to buy a house that are far from the city hectic life, just to get the peaceful & quiet moment with our family. Sometimes, we go for a holiday at the beach, just to calm & free from our busy life. And some of us may just sit & relax in our bedrooms, listening to the soft music that will give us sort of 'appreciated loneliness'..

Everybody has their own way!

...and we define 'appeasement' differently..

(dan ada juga yang cari ketenangan di pub & disco..yet sorry to say, I don't understand this category!! Bukan saja tak faham, dah cuba sedaya upaya, tapi memang masih tak faham..)

Banyak cara untuk tenang, dan saya terpanggil untuk berkongsi satu cara daripadanya.

Buangkan segala dendam kesumat di hati kita..buangkan jauh-jauh.. Maafkan semua orang, tak kira besar atau kecil salah mereka. Anggap sahaja mereka sudah buat yang terbaik untuk kita, tapi mungkin tak kesampaian. Jangan ada satu pun tuduhan dalam diri kita. Lafazkan dengan sebenar-benar pengucapan, "aku maafkan semua orang disekeliling ku"

Jangan salahkan orang lain bila kita kesal dengan apa yang terjadi pada kita sekarang. Sebaliknya, ucapkan terima kasih kerana ia telah menjadikan kita matang & 'berpelajaran' tentang hidup.

Kita sebagai hambaNya, cuma menjalani hidup yang telah direncanakan untuk kita. Dan percayalah, segala apa yg terjadi, baik & buruk, susah & senang, adalah yang terbaik untuk kita. For He is the best planner. He is the Most Just.

Kita adalah sebaik-baik kejadian, dan kita dikurniakan akal untuk kita menilai yang mana baik dan yang mana buruk. Dekatilah apa yang baik untuk kita, dan jauhilah yang tidak elok. Berdoalah, bila orang lain memberi masalah pada kita. Berdoalah minta Allah turunkan hidayah pada mereka, sedarkan mereka & berikan keinsafan pada mereka. Ingatlah, bukan tugas kita untuk membalas segala kejahatan yang dilakukan terhadap kita. It's true when people say, what goes around comes around..itu Karma. Tapi jangan pula kita yang bersusah payah untuk memikirkan cara untuk membalas dendam, tak kiralah niat dihati untuk menyedarkan ataupun untuk puaskan hati kita.

Maafkan mereka..itulah yang terbaik. Disamping itu, jika menjauhkan diri itu yang terbaik, lakukanlah. But deep inside, just forgive them.

Barulah ketenangan datang..and it's priceless.!!

Sesungguhnya,

Kemaafan adalah dendam yang terindah..

Sayangkan anak........

Assalamualaikum & Selamat Sejahtera semua!!

Entry kali ni bukan berniat utk tunjuk pandai,jauh sekali menuding jari kpd sesiapa..ianya sekadar peringatan untuk kita semua yang sentiasa lupa..termasuk aku sendiri yang senantiasa alpa ni.. Dah nama pun manusia, bukan hak kita untuk memegang title 'kesempurnaan' itu..

 Namun kita dikurniakan akal & fikiran, yg boleh kita gunakan untuk menilai kebaikan & keburukan, yang menjadikan kita makhluk Tuhan yg paling tinggi darjatnya. Jika tidak,masakan Iblis terlalu cemburu dengan kejadian kita sehinggakan tidak mahu menurut perintah Allah untuk sujud pada Adam a.s.!

Ramai antara kita yg sudah mengecapi satu peningkatan dalam hidup bila dikurniakan cahayamata..peningkatan daripada orang biasa kepada taraf ibu & bapa. Aku pula masih ternanti-nanti saat itu, dan aku pasti suatu hari akan merasa juga sedemikian. Umumnya, setiap ibu & bapa begitu menyayangi anak-anak mereka..Sewaktu kecil, kata orang,bila nyamuk menyerang si kecil,dikejarnya & dilanyak2 hingga mati.Begitulah haramnya darah si kecil untuk nyamuk seekor!! Diberinya si kecil hanya yang terbaik,susu yang terbaik untuk pembangunan fizikal & mental,kalau boleh biarlah si anak menjadi cerdik pandai hingga boleh mentadbir dunia!! Diberikan pendidikan yang sempurna, duniawi & ukhrawi, supaya anak menjadi insan yang paling syumul,kebanggaan seluruh keluarga!Tapi kadang-kadang kita terlupa untuk 'sentiasa' memilih yang terbaik buatnya..Kita pilih hanya yang menyenangkan kita..

FAST FOOD! Atau kata lainnya, makanan segera. Banyak sangat fast food sekarang berada di pasaran, samada yang sedia di makan ataupun yg sedia dimasak di rumah. Dua-duanya S.E.G.E.R.A.. Dan lazimnya fast food ni memang sedap! Ibarat tagline Maggi yang aku kenali sedari kecil, "Cepat dimasak,sedap dimakan".. Masih terngiang-ngiang lagi lagu itu di telinga.. Si anak pun merengek minta dibelikan Maggi, sebenarnya tak payah pergi beli, hampir semua rumah ada menyimpan stok. Kalau bukan untuk sebulan,paling tidak seminggu!!

Fast Food yang menjadi maksud utama aku di sini ialah KFC & McDonalds. Dua jenama ini sudah sebegitu sebati dengan kita semua, tua muda besar kecil..seolah-olah kita hidup membesar bersama KFC & McDonalds.

"I'm loving it!"

"Sedap hingga menjilat jari"

Aku tak tahu samada orang masih tak tahu keburukan fastfood yang dua ni, ataupun TAHU TAPI TAK SEDAR, ataupun pura-pura tak tahu,ataupun .... ahhhh, fikirkan pasal apa orang lain tahu memang tak berkesudahan kan.. Namun, andai ada yang masih belum tahu, ingin aku kongsi apa yang aku tahu dan telah membuatkan aku sedar..

Pertama:

Ada kajian dibuat tentang French Fries atau kentang goreng. Menggunakan dua balang yang bertutup, satu diletakkan jejari kentang asli yang digoreng & satu bekas lagi dimasukkan French Fries McD. Bekas tu dibiarkan selama 2 minggu & hasil kajian menunjukkan, selepas tempoh tersebut, jejari kentang asli sudah sudah hancur & terurai sepenuhnya (terurai pada hari ke-3 atau ke-4 sebenarnya) sedangkan French Fries McD masih elok seperti hari pertama! Lengkap fizikalnya, tak terubah langsung. Betapa banyaknya preservatives dalam sebatang kentang McD!! Begitulah juga bila ia masuk dalam perut kita, ambil masa yang sangat lama untuk dihadamkan. Kentang tu juga telah disalut dengan gula & garam & boleh menyebabkan darah tinggi & sakit jantung jika pengambilannya tidak terkawal..Dan biasanya, French Fries ni lah yg menjadi rebutan kanak-kanak kan..

Kedua:

Ada seorang kawan kepada Mr.Hubby cerita kat kitorang, mak dia selalu buat Mash Potato dulu-dulu waktu depa kecik. Mak dia Minah Saleh, dan Mash Potato adalah makanan ruji depa di rumah. dan dia cukup suka dengan Mash Potato atau Kentang Lecek mak dia buat, sehinggalah dia rasa cukup 'dewasa' untuk menolak kentang lecek tu lagi. Seringkali bila ada kentang lecek kat rumah dia, pasti hari tu juga ada Ayam Rangup berperisa seperti ayam KFC. Rupanya, setelah ayam-ayam tu di 'deep fry' di dalam minyak, semua lemak-lemak ayam akan termendap di dasar periuk. Setelah habis menggoreng, lemak2 tu la yang digunakan untuk jadikan 'gravy' mash potato tu..Patutlah sedap!! Dan mak dia kata, ini resepi asal Mash Potato KFC.. Nahh, kentang yang sepatutnya healthy dah tercemar dengan lemak2 ayam termendap!

Tak payahlah nk diceritakan lagi tentang buruknya lemak binatang kan..

Ketiga:

Ayam-ayam KFC & McD. Segar ke ayam-ayam tu?? Bila branch dah banyak, mampukah depa nak serve ayam kampung? Dah tentu ayam cucuk! A friend of mine, penternak ayam yang supply pada fast food restaurant katanya, ayam-ayam McD & KFC biologically baru berumur 2 minggu! Tapi dah disuntik Growth Hormone sehingga menjadi gemuk gedempol untuk disembelih pada usia tu. Dan bila kita turut sekali makan Growth Hormone tu secara tak langsung, kita terdedah kpd risiko penyakit2 seperti cancer, heart problem, pembesaran tanpa matang dan sebagainya. Dan, ada juga kajian mengatakan kerana hormon2 inilah menyebabkan sekarang lahirnya ramai insan-insan 'lembut' yg kita katakan secara semulajadi, tapi mungkin mak dia dah makan McD sejak dia dalam kandungan lagi! Nauzubillah..

Keempat:

Pernah tengok clip YouTube "SUPERSIZE ME?" Ia satu video dokumentari yg sangat bagus arahan Morgan Spurlock. Spurlock's film follows a 30-day time period during which he limits himself to only eat McD's food. The film documents this lifestyle's drastic effects on Spurlock's physical and psychological well-being, and explores the fast food industry's corporate influence, including how in encourages poor nutrition for its own profit. During the filming, Spurlock dined at McD's restaurants three times a day, sampling every item on the chain's menu at least once. He also "super-sized" his meal every time he was asked. Spurlock consume an average of 20.92 megajoules or 5,000 cal (the equivalent of 9.26 Big Macs) per day during the experiment. As a result, the then-32-year-old Spurlock gained 11.1 kg, a 13% body mass increase, and experienced MOOD SWINGS, SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION & LIVER DAMAGE. It took Spurlock fourteen months to lose the weight he gained! (wikipedia)

Terus-terang aku admit, after tengok video ni lah, Alhamdulillah aku dah stop makan all those fast food, drastically. Sekarang dah masuk 2 tahun aku stop makan & tak pernah terliur walau sedikit pun! Being a normal human, aku doa agar tekad aku ni berkekalan. Tak rugi apa2 pun aku rasa.

Jadi, tepuk dada tanyalah akal, jangan tanya selera. Nanti selera jawab "nak", terpaksa ikut pulak. Kalau badan Spurlock yang umur 32 tu pun tak boleh tahan dengan effect fast food tu, bayangkan apa yang akan terjadi pada badan anak-anak kita yang baru berumur 3-4 tahun tu. Badan mereka tu tak kuat nak combats all those harmful ingredients in the McD & KFC food. So,kalau sayangkan mereka, stop poisoning them!! Give them the better chance to live, bukan hidup dalam penuh penyakit di hari tua nanti kalaupun bukan sekarang. And stop giving them all those carbonated drinks which can definitely cause diabetes in young children. 

Feed them with good & only the best food we can, for that will bring them a healthier life and a healthier mind. Jangan rencatkan pertumbuhan akal anak-anak kita. Biarlah kita bersusah-payah menyediakan makanan di rumah untuk mereka sekarang ini, daripada kita bersusah-payah risaukan kesihatan mereka nanti. Lagipun, banyak pahala seorang ibu bila memasak makanan untuk keluarganya & itu kan boleh merapatkan hubungan ibu & anak. Sesungguhnya air tangan ibu itulah yang paling sedap!! Percayalah......

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thanks for caring... A woman will do anything just to be a mommy!! I pun dh kawen 7 years..but the first 2 years tu,hubby mmg taknak baby lagi,nk enjoy dululah katanya..hehehe..then,try punya try,terus tak dpt sampai sekrg..(but insyaallah the time will come soon).. Back in 2004,uji ada gi jumpa Dr Hamid Arshat,kat klinik dia kat Bkt Damansara tu..time tu dia buat vaginal scan (masuk camera thru vagina) and ikut kata dia,takde apa2..then dia suggest uji pegi buat HSG,x-ray kat dlm uterus & tube by injecting blue dye..uji pi buat the next day kat pakar x-ray kat jln raja laut..there's something from the film & results tu tp being org biasa,mana kita lih paham terms2 medic yg boombastic tu kan..so,the next day,i bring the result to dr hamid again,and dia kata takde apa2...walhal,kat situ dh nampak terang yg tube i dah blocked,and polyps pun dah ada..tp,uji rasalah,being so pakar,dr hamid ni tends to take things for granted..maybe pada dia small matters,but to us,it's HUGE beb!!so,basically dia ckp,"ok,u takde apa2 masalah..semua ok"..kita pun dah pakar ckp gitu,duk lah bawak statement dia sampai bertahun2 yg "ooo there's nothing wrong with me.Medically fit."Husband pun buat sperm test,and it's ok.(geram tak??but again,mesti ada hikmahnya kan).. so,in the meantime..i was keep on 'making baby'..hehehe..tp still jugak try other alternative medicines..uji pegi berurut,sbb rahim selalu 'jatuh' kalo angkat berat,and i have a very very severe period pain...kdg2 sampai pengsan,termuntah2,terberak2....punyelah teruk period..but,dah pakar kata 'nothing is wrong' kan..uji try jugak homeopathy..tp yg tu just cure my migrain (thankful to Allah)..apa shj supplements utk get conceive yg org suggest,uji ambik but sometimes ada yg painful so i just stopped.. then,last year uji try Chinese Herbal Medicines kat Seremban..nama klinik dia Golden Gate Fertility Center..masa tu when the doc asked about my history,uji tunjuk lah HSG films & the result (masa 2004 tu) kat dia..and dia kata.."how come doctor do nothing about this?this means your tube has blockage and as long as ada block,camne sperm nk jumpa the ovum.."so,time tu dah rasa geram kt dr.hamid...and we go for the Chinese Herbal program,tp tak lama sbb mahal sgt lah beb...tak tahan..1st time pegi,check for both of us,kena RM1500..pastu,every week kena pegi,everytime pegi kena lagi dlm 3-4 ratus...terjelir jugak lh lidah..so,again,stop jugak.. then,uji sambung pegi jumpa bidan2 kampung,and most of them kata takde apa2 jugak..tunggu je la masa belum sampai...huhhh.. entah mcm mana,bila masuk thn 2009 ni,duk kira umur dah 32..tergerak hati utk do something more serious..discuss2 dgn husband,so uji nk try jumpa another gynae..mula tu nk jumpa Dato' Dr. Noor Asyikin,yg selalu masuk TV tu,tp bila google pasal dia..tak berapa nk suit my character lah..(dun ask me why..i just feel it)..and few friends pun kata dia tu Rough sikit..so,uji borak2 dgn a few of senasib friends..survey2..sampailah one of my fren suggest this Dr Marsita Mansor..betul jugak org kata,kita ni kdg2 tgk juga atas keserasian dgn mana2 doktor..kdg2 org tak serasi,tp dgn kita,ok lak..and being with dr marsita ni,uji rasa comfortable..mungkin Allah dah tentukan melalui tangan dia kan.. so,i pegi 1st time jumpa dr marsita kat Pantai on 24/3/09..dia buat vaginal scan,terus nampak the polyps2 tu..dan dia pun tgk jugak film & result masa 2004,dan kata mmg all those thing dah ada masa thn tu..*sigh** dia terus suggest for operation..and explain apa kena buat..all those 5 procedures sekaligus in 1 operation..hsband dah mcm cuak tp uji kind of nak sgt buat operation tu...sbb dah malas nk try benda2 lain dah..'it's been 7 years dah common lah'..mcm tu lah rasanya..so,dia tanya mcm mana?uji terus kata,ok jugak tu..and dia terus isikan consent for operation,uji sign..cuma tak confirm date lg sbb husband nk check roster dia dulu...ikutkan husband,dia berat skit nk izinkan,tp uji berdegil jugak nk buat.. so,uji call sendiri doctor tu,book her on the 31st for operation..dan alhamdulillah,syukur buat operation tu sbb byk benda yg dpt dia betulkan inside..tube dah keras dgn infections (mungkin pernah ada infection dulu2),dah bersimpul2,rahim pun dah terlekat ke belakang,polyps pun byk,cyst pun ada..dia terus buang semua tu,and ikat rahim ke depan sikt because normal uterus berada dlm keadaan sujud sikit ke depan (Maha Suci kejadian Allah)...Alhamdulillah,sbb tube still boleh diselamatkan...just imagine kalo uji delay lagi,it could just ruins everything..nauzubillah.. so,basically itulah problem selama ni yg uji tak dpt nk conceive..ovary ok,telur pun ada,kalo ikutkan bkn masalah kesuburan lah..cuma maybe rahim terlampau byk 'sampah',jadi sperm tak jumpa carik,ataupun doc kata,mungkin dah jadik persenyawaan,tp there's no place to attach to the uterus wall. sekrg,uji & husband terus doa,moga2 after this,kami dpt baby...kalo dpt,every year nk pregnant..hehehhehe...sempat lagi kot nk dpt 5 org..hehehe..how sweet... my advise,go and have thorough check up,while we still young..but make sure,ambik medical insurance dulu ye..that's very very important..Life is like a box of chocolates,we will never know what we'll get...at least,we hope for the best,and prepare for the worst..kan..kalo u nk my gynae's number,just tell me ok..and pls call my insurance agent,he's damn good at this..(ask me his phone number). Just mention my name..UJIE & my husband ZAIDAN..jgn tangguh2 lagi tau.. apa2 pun,kita jgn putus harap..it's no good if we give-up with Allah..Dia dah cakap, "Mintalah apa sahaja denganKu,nescaya akan aku perkenankan"..pegang tu erat2,insyaallah...

Harga Sebuah Ikatan Suci..

Rahsia Cincin di Jari Manis

Pernah terfikir mengenai hal ini? Jika hendak tahu jawapannya, cuba lakukan seperti gambar di bawah. Sesungguhnya alam semesta ciptaan Tuhan memang banyak rahsianya.

*Rapatkan kedua-dua tapak tangan. Kemudian bengkokkan dan rapatkan jari ketiga (jari tengah) serta cantumkan hujung jari-jari yang lain seperti dalam gambar di atas.
Mari kita mula permainan ini.
1. Cuba buka dan renggangkan ibu jari. Jari ini mewakili kedua ibubapa kita. Ianya boleh dibuka sebab semua manusia akan sakit dan mati. Satu hari nanti kedua orang tua kita juga akan pergi meninggalkan kita.
2. Rapatkan semula ibu jari dan buka jari kedua (jari telunjuk). Jari ini mewakili adik beradik kita yang juga satu hari nanti akan berkawin dan bila dah berkeluarga, mereka juga akan meninggalkan kita.
3. Rapatkan semula jari kedua tu dan buka pula jari kelima (jari kelingking). Jari ni mewakili anak-anak kita bila kita dah berkeluarga nanti. Kita pun kena menerima hakikat bahawa mereka juga akan pergi meninggalkan kita bila mereka juga telah berkawin dan berkeluarga.
4. Rapatkan semula jari kelima tu. Sekarang cuba buka jari manis yang kita sarungkan cincin perkahwinan kita tu. Anda mesti terkejut jari manis tu sedikit pun tidak mahu bergerak dan tidak boleh dibuka langsung. Aneh kan?
Kerana jari manislah lambang hubungan suami isteri. Apabila sudah berkahwin dan bersatu ianya harus bersama hingga ke akhir hayat. Pelik tapi benar tetapi itulah hakikat sebenar cinta sejati yang penuh dengan kasih sayang . Terus bersama hingga ke akhir hayat.

(Ilham daripada http://baitulrahmah.wordpress.com - thanks for the great entry)

This is what we call,HIDAYAH..

Michael Jackson peluk Islam

LOS ANGELES: Penyanyi kontroversi Amerika Syarikat, Michael Jackson, memeluk Islam dan menukar namanya kepada Mikaeel, nama malaikat yang memberi rezeki. Superstar muflis berusia 50 tahun itu dilaporkan memakai jubah dan kopiah ketika mengucap dua kalimah syahadah di hadapan seorang imam dalam satu majlis di sebuah rumah rakannya di sini. Akhbar The Sun dalam laporannya semalam mendedahkan majlis itu diadakan beberapa hari sebelum Jackson atau 'Jacko' dihadapkan ke Mahkamah Tinggi London, selepas disaman oleh seorang putera Arab.

Alhamdulillah..to me,this is what we call,petunjuk & hidayah..Sesungguhnya Allah berhak memilih siapa sahaja yg dikehendakiNya untuk diberikan hidayah & nur..samada kita sangka atau tidak..semuanya berada di dalam rahsia-Nya..Kita sebagai Muslim yang sememangnya bersaudara antara satu sama lain seharusnya berdoa supaya Allah memberikan petunjuknya kepada mana2 sahaja kawan/musuh kita yg masih ingkar dengan perintahnya..dan sesudah doa kita dimakbulkan..ucapkanlah Alhamdulillah dan teruslah mendoakan kesejahteraannya..

Benarlah kata orang.."Jangan kita hanya mengeji orang yang melakukan kejahatan kerana mungkin sesaat sebelum dia mati dia diberikan kesempatan untuk bertaubat..Dan janganlah kita terlampau bangga dengan kebaikkan yang kita lakukan,kerana dikhuatiri kita mati sebelum benar2 bertaubat."

To Mikaeel Jackson,hope you will be a very good practising Muslim & maybe you will be granted with such sakinah & an-nur in perfecting your life with Islam..

Rahsia No.7

Have you ever wondered, why there are so many SEVEN in this world?

• 7 lapis langit
• 7 lapis bumi
• 7 jenis lautan
• 7 warna pelangi
• 7 kali zikir
• 7 kali samak
• 7 kali tawaf
• 7 ayat dlm al-Fatihah,pembuka surah
• 7 jenis air mutlak

Mostly, everywhere & anything is SEVEN..have you ever made a thought about it? Find it.. when you find the answer, you will understand this life better. Ask people around you.. find it in a book.. do everything to find the answer..

Syukur aku dilahirkan sebagai anak yg ke-7, lahir pada 7hb, pada tahun '77.. Banyak rahmatnya,I JUST BELIEVE ..

Martians vs. Venusians..Part 1

From the book;

The 2 most common mistakes we make in a relationship;

• A man tries to change a woman's feelings when she is upset by becoming Mr.Fix-It & offering solutions to her problems that invalidate her feelings.

My comment: Ehmmm....Yes.Sometimes I feel so.He just didn't listen & seems cannot understand.He lacks of empathy.

• A woman tries to change a man's behavior when he makes mistakes by becoming the Home-Improvement Committee & offering unsolicited advice & criticism.

My comment: OMG!I didn't realized it.It's my habit.All the time.I thought it's a good thing to do,all this while...and he never said that he hates it,so I used to think I might just keep on telling (or in fact insisting) him to do this & that,according to my standards...Arghh...I made a mistake!

Well,according to John Gray,it's ok to be Mr.fix-It or Home-Improvement Committee,but it is very much depends on the TIMING & APPROACH.A woman greatly appreciates Mr.Fix-It,as long as it doesn't come out when she is upset.Means,Mr.Hubby need to remember that when I'm upset & talk about problems,it's not the time to offer solutions;instead I just need to be listened,notto be fixed.In that way,I will be better by my own.Hehehe......

Whilst,a man greatly appreciates the Home-Improvement Committee,as long as it is requested.Means,I need to remember that,unsolicited advice & criticism-especially if he has made a mistake-will only make him feel unloved & controlled.(ohhh...poor my dearie).In fact,he needs my acceptance more than my advice (oh God,can I really change this attitude??)in order for him to learnfrom his mistakes.And one truth about this,when a man feels that a woman is not trying to improve him,he is much more likely to ask for her feedback and advice.(ohhh how sweet!!)

WHEN OUR PARTNET RESISTS US,IT'S PROBABLY BECAUSE WE HAVE MADE A MISTAKE IN OUR TIMING & APPROACH

He gives examples of few statements that a man/woman might make that will lead to resistance between each other.

WHEN A WOMAN RESISTS A MAN'S SOLUTION (when a man says.....)

1. "It's not such a big deal." (he always take little things for granted)
2. "Ok,I'm sorry.Now can we just forget it?" (i think he just want to stop argument,instead of solving it)
3. "So what are you trying to say?" (in other words, come-on,you are wasting my time)
4. "All right,I'll clean-up the backyard.Does that make you happy?" (no sincerity)
5. "If you are going to complaint about doing it,then don't do it." (kita ni takleh bangkang langsung)

WHEN A MAN RESISTS A HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE (when a woman says....) I don't understand in some of the examples here,I mean,I did honestly ask Mr.Hubby & he said,he's ok with most of the statements..

1. "You hair is getting kind of long,isn't it?" (Aiii..ni pun takleh tanya ke?)
2. "There's a parking spot over there.Turn the car around." (i think this a nice help & Mr.Hubby is always hoping for this..)
3. "You should call a plumber.He'll know what to do." (haa..this one might be true.he possibly feels being mistrusted in doing/fixing things)
4. "Next time we should read the movie review." (he will feel unappreciated)
5. "Your shirt doesn't match with your pants." (Well,Mr.Hubby is kind of be thankful to me by saying this..)

..and a few other examples more.Maybe I should read in more details in the coming chapters. For the time being,a cup of Chamomile Tea will give me a pure relaxation....ehmmmm....

I want to be a better me..

My conversation with Mr.Hubby last few days kept haunting me. We were not discussing any big issue,in fact it was just a normal conversation..manja manja conversation but somehow it was really bothering me. It makes me thinking again and again..finding the truth, sorting for a logical reason behind those words that he had expressed.. The conversation went on like this:

It was at night & I was getting to bed while Mr.Hubby was at the computer, making sure that he is kept updated with the last general election news.. Suddenly I felt some sort of painful bloating in my upper stomach, so I hunched to him..

Me : Syg..tolong tepuk belakang I ni jap..sakit lah. Tetiba je.. Angin kot..
Mr.Hubby : Naper plak ni??

Then , he tapped 4 or 5 times on my back, but still with his eyes on the computer screen.. while mumbling this..

Mr.Hubby : Pegi ambik losyen halia, sapu belakang..takpun gi minum air suam...kejap lagi hilang lah tu..
Me : Syg ni,mintak tolong pun buat acuh tak acuh je..takpe lah. I can do it on my own..
(walked away with kind of dissapointment feeling..rasa macam ishh tak leh harap betul lah)

I was not expecting any reply or indeed I was hoping that he will persuade me..but this is what happened,

Mr.Hubby : Alahhh..you lagi teruk..Kalau I sakit, langsung buat tak dengar je..Suruh urut sikit pun tak buat.. (than he just let me walking back to the room whilst he continued browsing)

I was thinking & did a self inner-talking , is it true what he said? When & how many times on earth did he fell sick compared to myself? (he is lucky enough, thank God,he is very very seldom sick) Macam mana aku nak urut if I have so tiny fingers to put a 'rubbing force' on his 'fleshful' (hahaha) body? I do rub his nose & chest with Vicks everytime he got a flu..which is only 2 or 3 times a year.. I do offer him warm water whenever he is uncomfortable with his roundy stomach..(ahaha again).. It's true that he is there most of the time I fell sick, but my case is different..i got a severe pain which obviously need a help..i couldn't even walk, couldn't stand sometimes..of course he must do something.. So,is it fair for him to say such words to me????

I don't care much if he's wrong..I assume that he mistakenly thought about me..Well,everybody do that! But how about if he is right? that I don't care & nurture him the way I'm supposed to do? I don't want that to be happened.. truly..

Still having this confusion in my mind, I stepped into the MPH today..actually without any specific purpose..but hoping to get some guides.. Until my eyes caught a book..I know this book, it is one the bestseller titles. Flipped a few pages, and now it's with me on the bed. MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS by John Gray.



Just finished reading Chapter 2.. The more I read, the more I regret of being the all-this-while me.. I always thought that I've done great, but oppositely I'm wrong.. I thought I'm building up our relationship, but on the other hand, i'm kind of ruining it. I thought our love has increased by day,on the contrary it may diminish within minutes.. Sounds like telur di hujung tanduk right?? Not la..not as bad as that... Cuma, sometimes, my point is.. we think we have delivered the best.. but in reality, we can be better than that.. Not just wife, husband too..of course.

We often forgot that we are from a different planets & were supposed to be different, indeed. It's getting worse when one day, everything we had learned about our differences was erased from memory..and since that day, man & woman have been in conflict..

I quote from the book:

Without the awareness that we supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other.We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgottenthis important truth.We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves.We desire them to "want what we want" and "feel the way we feel".

We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways-the ways we react and behave when we love someone.This attitude sets us up to be dissappointed again and again and prevent us from taking the necessary time to communicate lovingly about our differences.

Men mistakenly expect women to think,communicate and react the way men do;women mistakenly expect men to feel,communicate and respond the way women do.We have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be different.As a result our relationships are filled with unnecessary friction and conflict.

I hate conflicts..and I decided,before it happens..i want by all means,avoiding it from happen. We are happy now, and I want us to be 'happier' along with time.. May we find ways on how to achieve that... only one problem now,how could i persuade Mr.Hubby to read this book so that he manage to improve things he supposed to improve? urghhhh...

Something might be useful..

While watching hindi movie this morning, i came across the hero saying:** well,hindi movie memang terer bab2 ayat falsafah ni..**

IF MY DOOR NEED TO BE OPENED BEFORE IT IS KNOCKED,IT IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR ME TO OPEN IT CAREFULLY.

Ermmm..sound meaningful huh??Don't u think so??

Mrs's prattling..1st part

***This was supposed to be the last friday's entry.Procrastination tells how busy I was last few days..chewahh..***

It's Friday again. Time flew so fast-friday to friday is now just a blink away.I always think,what have I done in between?How many tasks have I completed?As I'm writing this n3,I'm sitting in my car waiting for Mr.Hubby to perform his dutiful Friday prayer.I'm almost like this every week, it's either waiting in the car,or alone having pre-lunch (if a restaurant nearby) or doing a window shopping (if the mosque is in vicinity of any shopping mall).Will I still be like this when we have kids?I asked Mr.Hubby once, and he said "YESS!OF COURSE". Sometimes,I feel really tired of doing this.I mean,keep accompanying him wherever he goes,in whatever he does.Be it at the car service,workshop (tukar tayar,buat allignment,balancing),at the barbershop,at the DVD shop,meeting his friends,going to the grocery just to buy batteries,banking..you name it..anywhere,everytime..Yup,I'm his true companion,making me again 100% agree with this blog title.Sometimes have to admit tho,isn't it nice if I'm just stay at home,doing cooking,and wait for him at home,just like other people?However,with extra awareness,I know,lives vary.Depends on what type of person we are,what character do we posses,what expectations do we hope & what environment we are in..Realizing this,I came to be thankful,that Mr.Hubby really needs me,all the time in his life,as I compared to those who seldomly see their husband,to those who always be abandoned by their husband,yet I feel grateful to Allah..and I pray this would be forever..

But,will you agree with me,it's difficult to practice IKHLAS?Easier said than done.When we give too much,we tend to expect the return too high.Not materialistically though,it's in all aspects,especially for the same sacrifices that we made for him..

***Mr.Hubby is on his way back from the mosque now.GTG..Bear with me for the 2nd part,if you want to...hahaha***

Global Warming di sana sini..

Today morning,Mr.Hubby is arriving from Stockholm.He didn't ask me to fetch him today,nasib baik..I always think,that Monday morning is not a good day to fetch him because to my experience & my observation,Monday morning traffic is always congested.To my opinion,maybe after a weekend rest,people are somehow in a very energetic state to re-start their routine-pegi kerja,doing businesses,selesaikan urusan harian,banking,antar anak sekolah & many more.Usually it is not just in the morning,sometimes it's up until evening or even late at night..Itulah dia bila semangat menguasai diri..

Looking at Mr.Hubby's duty roster this month,aku gumbira.He will be at home for a long OFF,until 23rd Feb.That's about 10 days beb!!Wow,aku memang suka yang amat.*saper tak suka bila laki duk rumah berkepit dgn kita siang malam woooo??*But one thing for sure,when he's off,my duty is on..a duty as a lifetime hubby's companion will be utilized to the max,guaranteed!!Bermakna,tugas menemani dia dari seawal pagi sehinggalah sampai mata takleh nak bukak *dah tengah malam*,is on the list again... alahai... Tapi apo nak buat,syurga di bawah telapak kaki suami..kan..kan..kan..

Siang semalam,I remember 'skyping' with him in Stockholm.I was asking him the weather in Stockholm when he replied, there's no longer snowing.Aikkk, aku terus je mencongak2 dalam kepala otak ni,last time he was there during the New Year's Eve,the snow just started to fall.And,lumrah alam,being a Scandinavian country,normally it goes on until months,supposedly now is the peak winter,with -5 Celcius.But,Mr.Hubby said the temperature during the day now is ranging 7-8 Celcius..*confused*.It's an undoubtedly the effect of Global Warming.Chehhh,macam datuk bandar berucap laks rasanya..hehehe.Yes,dalam istilah 'environmental condition' it's called global warming.But,from my personal point of view,it is one of the significant signs,leading to the End of World.The earth keeps changing its rotation,keeps tilting its position,until one day,we really find,the sun rises from its west..Subhanallah..

Ya Allah,jadikanlah kami antara orang2 yang tidak kerugian..Semoga kami menjadi antara orang2 yg terawal kembali ke jalanMu..Telah banyak petanda yang Engkau turunkan,celikkan mata kami,terangilah hati kami untuk menyedarinya ya Allah.Tingkatkanlah iman & taqwa kami,jadikanlah kami antara yang paling bersedia & gembira untuk menemuiMu.Amiinnn...

Muhassabah Diri

I'm not a good person in terms of practicing religion tasks, not an Islamic-very-knowledgeable person either.But,naturally, being grown-up with a 'quite strong' base and Alhamdulillah,granted with a good conscience,I could by reasons differentiate which is proper manner and which is not;be it in human relationship or in relationship with the Almighty Allah swt.

Before I commented what I want to comment here,me either,regretfully not a 1825-times-a-year solat performer and I have been and will be trying my whole lifetime to be one. However-rule of thumb-quantity without quality is just a waste, isn't it?Please understand I'm not saying that,if we have achieved the "kusyuk" in solat,(a step-to-final stage in solat,where you find the true "love & fun" in performing solat),means we can easily abandon the 5-times day routine,or just do it whenever we like.Strictly NO.Bear in mind,when we are in that "kusyuk" stage,it's not US anymore who feels like performing solat,it's our INNER FAITH that automatically will guide us 'to see' our creator,not just limited to 5 times a day,sometimes might be even more,and mostly up to every second.Because,solat itself is not described by the 'up & down' procedures - it's just being a guide- solat is a RELATION or we call it HUBUNGAN and it is our HUBUNGAN DENGAN ALLAH PENCIPTA ALAM.Isn't it so merciful that we can 'talk' to our creator,and knowing that He is listening?And with concrete confidence,we know that He is capable in granting our wish or 'doa' that we've been reciting all times in our life?If we know all this,don't we supposed to 'sanjung' Him as the ONLY ONE and THE MOST ABOVE?It is not a yes/no question,it is definitely YES!!

I give an example:If you are seeing 'somebody up there' (in top position) let say in Government office,how will you react?Ok,not saying PM lah,enough with a DO (district officer) in your area,asking for his 'bless help' in endorsing your land or whatever application, my goodness,sometimes it is up to a stage that people beg him,bow to him...even though it is just a human-human relationship.

On the other hand, (this is my point), why are we so calculative (berkira) in our relation with Allah?We often take for granted the golden chance of being with Him.We go to Him with rude and improper manner.Why?Is it because we do not 'realistically' see Him?

I raise up this matter because I often see people 'chasing time' when performing solat.I have timed my al-Fatihah reading,the fastest it can go is 23 secs - that's the fastest & I seldom do that.I wonder,how they can recite it for 10 secs & completed solat in just 1 or 2 minutes?Do they have an advanced standard of doing it with short-cuts?I may not be that knowledgeable enough in Islamic education,but as far as I'm concerned,there's no short-cuts.

Question: ARE THEY REALLY SEEING GOD OR JUST PASSING-BY IN FRONT OF HIM???