Harga Sebuah Ikatan Suci..

Rahsia Cincin di Jari Manis

Pernah terfikir mengenai hal ini? Jika hendak tahu jawapannya, cuba lakukan seperti gambar di bawah. Sesungguhnya alam semesta ciptaan Tuhan memang banyak rahsianya.

*Rapatkan kedua-dua tapak tangan. Kemudian bengkokkan dan rapatkan jari ketiga (jari tengah) serta cantumkan hujung jari-jari yang lain seperti dalam gambar di atas.
Mari kita mula permainan ini.
1. Cuba buka dan renggangkan ibu jari. Jari ini mewakili kedua ibubapa kita. Ianya boleh dibuka sebab semua manusia akan sakit dan mati. Satu hari nanti kedua orang tua kita juga akan pergi meninggalkan kita.
2. Rapatkan semula ibu jari dan buka jari kedua (jari telunjuk). Jari ini mewakili adik beradik kita yang juga satu hari nanti akan berkawin dan bila dah berkeluarga, mereka juga akan meninggalkan kita.
3. Rapatkan semula jari kedua tu dan buka pula jari kelima (jari kelingking). Jari ni mewakili anak-anak kita bila kita dah berkeluarga nanti. Kita pun kena menerima hakikat bahawa mereka juga akan pergi meninggalkan kita bila mereka juga telah berkawin dan berkeluarga.
4. Rapatkan semula jari kelima tu. Sekarang cuba buka jari manis yang kita sarungkan cincin perkahwinan kita tu. Anda mesti terkejut jari manis tu sedikit pun tidak mahu bergerak dan tidak boleh dibuka langsung. Aneh kan?
Kerana jari manislah lambang hubungan suami isteri. Apabila sudah berkahwin dan bersatu ianya harus bersama hingga ke akhir hayat. Pelik tapi benar tetapi itulah hakikat sebenar cinta sejati yang penuh dengan kasih sayang . Terus bersama hingga ke akhir hayat.

(Ilham daripada http://baitulrahmah.wordpress.com - thanks for the great entry)

Not enough time laaaa...

It is a very common statement we heard almost everyday right?? Even though I have banned that statement to be uttered by myself & Mr.Hubby,but we do say it unconsciously..(minda dibawah sedar lah kononnya ni..)..

Like what was happened today..Last night,we spend the whole night at Kakak's house,came back to our heavenly home at 5.30 in the morning. After Subuh,Mr.Hubby dah siap completely dressed up for his new hobby-cycling..Me??Tak cukup tido beb,so aku continue my unfinished dream or dreams..Then,neighbour called ajak pi breakfast kat The Dangau (aku yg bagi nama tu dgn rasminya..) dlm Kg.Giching..Sepantas kilat aku pakai baju (eh,tadi pun dah pakai dah..errr I mean tukar baju.)drive to the gerai while Mr.Hubby is coming directly from his cycling place..Makan & borak did not happend in 30 mins my friends..with a lot of stories to tell..ermmm..

Then,I've been 'marshalling' Mr.Hubby home,masuk rumah aku lepas hajat kejap,Mr.Hubby tukar baju..we went out again to a car wash..Washing done,we headed to the Giant,groceries shopping sbb Mr.Hubby dah bising asyik takde ration nak kunyah2 kat rumah..ishhh..Shopping bla bla bla,arriving home dah kul 1.30 ptg..lepak kejap pulak kat dining sambil makan Lays potato chips & Greens Total to get more energy for the afternoon session..Naik atas mandi (sambil basuh bilik air),solat..Mr.Hubby dah krohh krohh krohh taking his nap while me??right here telling my day to you all...(takde kerje lain ke aku ni??)

Well,memang ada sebenarnya..aku belum masak lagi..HUARRRGGHHHHH!!!!!Perut dah lapar but starting my luncheon cooking too late like today,menjadikan aku terus terusan malas..arghh,today is just the 1st day of 2009 & I'm here saying that word??Malas???So passive..So demotivated...I hate that..

Gaining back all my lost spirit,please wish me luck so that I could successfully tick all these 'things-to-do' checklist for today..

• Cooking-rice,steamed fish,vegetable with oyster sauce.
• Sapu Pledge kat dashboard kereta..
• Sapu lantai tingkat atas.
• Kemas bilik..(lagi????)
• Jemur kain yg dah di'handwash'kan pepagi tadi tp tak sempat jemur sbb nak kuar takut hujan plak..
• Rearrange groceries yg baru beli tadi ke dalam 'virtual kitchen cabinet' aku..hehe
• Basuh uniform cycling Mr.Hubby sebab maybe esok kalo dia tak kena call-up dia sure nak cycling lagi..
• Send all the tudungs to the dry clean..

And now,it's almost 3.30pm..will I again say 'not enough time lah..'?Jangan menidakkan kebijaksanaan Allah mengurniakan 24 jam sehari untuk hamba2Nya Ujie...

Demi masa,sesungguhnya manusia itu berada di dalam kerugian..

New Hijrah..

Salam Ma'al Hijrah to all my Muslim friends..semoga kita semua menjadi insan yang lebih berusaha menuju kesempurnaan iman, taqwa & pembangunan sahsiah diri juga keluarga kita..Tanamkan azam dalam diri beserta dengan sebenar benar niat semoga dengan kedatangan 1 Muharram ini dapat memberi sinar baru dalam kehidupan kita seharian..Aku berdoa semoga aku juga kawan2 semua menjadi seorang wanita,isteri,ibu,anak,pekerja,jiran,sahabat & ahli masyarakat yang lebih bertanggungjawab,lebih baik dalam segala segi di tahun baru ini dan seterusnya untuk hari hari yg mendatang..Insyaallah..doa-doakan lah..

Yesterday,went to MPH Alamanda..it was yet so early when I arrived there because at first,I decided to jog around the lake in Putrajaya..the one nearby the Pullman Hotel (under construction)..sadly needed to switch our plan coz it was raining..gantinya??what else to do at the early morning..breakfast lah..Calorie Adding Session...the other name..after breakfast,Mak showed us her broken glasses, poor her has to adjust her eyes accordingly to see the lauk pauk & the menu board..hehehe..so,we went straight to alamanda to get a new one for her..

While waiting for them,I entered MPH..wowwww..maybe because of the new year,I attracted to so many books..Feels like wanted to read it straight away..Flipping the pages of few books,I managed to get these:

1) Bagaimana Akhirnya Saya Bertudung : It's a compilation of few stories,few experiences from various women in many different fields, name it doctor, engineer, accountant, architect, student, housewife and celebrity too!! Noorkumalasari pun ada... Hoping by reading their stories will strengthen my niat to cover..

2)Jangan Bersedih,Jadilah Wanita yg Paling Bahagia (hadiah khas buat Muslimah) : Buku ni mengimbau kepada setiap wanita untuk hidup bahagia dengan agamanya, merasa senang dengan kurnia Allah yg telah dianugerahkan kepadanya, dan bergembira dengan pelbagai nikmat yang telah dimilikinya.. By reading this book, I hope I will be the one who really grateful to Allah & redha with whatever my qadha & qadar..Insyaallah..

3)The Power of Solat (terapi membina kesihatan jasmani & rohani melalui gerakan solat): I found this is a very interesting book to read..an exciting treasure to explore..ye lah,kadang kita tertunggang tonggek solat,we don't really know the benefit of all those procedures..solat ada maknanya tersendiri dalam erti tasawwufnya, cuma ilmu dalam buku ni pun tak kurang pentingnya untuk kita pelajari..so it's all about anatomi tubuh manusia ada hubung kaitnya dengan gerakan gerakan dalam solat.

4)Kisah-Kisah Para Nabi & Rasul: This one is like a story book, a story of 25 rasul in spreading & developing Islam in their own era..I have this kind of book once long ago,when I was still small but I lost it somewhere or with somewho..Syok baca buku ni,until sometime it become so emotional & tearful reading sebab malu dengan kakuatan semangat para nabi & Rasul2 dulu..

5)100 Ayat Pembuka Pintu Rezeki: Rezeki tidak dtg bergolek..dan doa adalah penyudah usaha..tawakkal adalah pemanisnya.. I know Solat Dhuha adalah solat yang paling makbul untuk memohon rezeki daripada-Nya..Insyallah,akan aku jadikan amalan..Dalam buku jugak,ada disertakan doa untuk kita mendapat rezeki yang diberkati,minta dijauhkan dari punca2 pendapatan yg salah jalannya..

6)La Tahzan (Jangan Bersedih) Jilid 1: It's one of the #1 International Best Seller by Dr.'Aidh bin Abdullah al-Qarni..merangkumi segala sebab & hujah supa kita mendapat semangat & azam untuk hidup hari ini tanpa kesedihan, tanpa keresahan, tanpa kemarahan, tanpa kedengkian dan tanpa kebencian...walau dalam apa jua situasi sekalipun..

7)Amalan Wirid Ibu Semasa Hamil: Hahahaha...very advanced lah Mr.Hubby ni..anyway,it's good to know awal2 kan...

Semoga diberikan Allah petunjuk jalan..amiinn..

Pagi nan indah....

Dengan rasa tak malu nak ngaku aku subuh gajah hari ni..al-kisahnya alarm rang at 5.30am as usual,and I turned it off as usual,and laid back as usual..heehe..Cuma selalunya Mr.Hubby's alarm will rang again at 6 o'clock then only I get up and perform the Subuh.But today,,Mr.Hubby woke up first & performed his prayer outside the room (just to 'memakmurkan' semua bahagian dlm rumahnya)..he called my name twice before he left the room,that's what i remembered..but,feel very dizzy (morning sickness without the pregnancy..hehehe),sudahnya aku bangun pukul 6.57am..kat luar dah terang dah..so,terkocoh2 aku ambik wudhu' & solat qadha..astaghfirullah..

(puan2 sekalian,jgn meniru adegan ini di rumah ye..not good!!)

Then,after saying my doa,as usual,I opened the windows..and hewwwwww..the wind is so refreshing..cool and breeze air touched my bare face..i looked far to the hills behind my house..the trees and the farm..people said, seeing the GREEN is very good for your eyes especially in the early morning..I admit it's true..I feel so alive & energetic..and the wind still blowing as I'm writing this entry..ouhh I love my new place..

Dengan semangat pagi yg ada,aku terus turun bawah bukak all the windows and the doors..biar angin masuk kata Mr.Hubby..selalu memang kami bukak awal2 pagi pun,but today somehow it is different..angin dia tu really really cool..ye lah,we are in the middle of tengkujuh..maybe this is why the wind is cooler than usual..

We have a lite breakfast today..in our dining,facing the orchard..just the two of us..(lupa lak nak cakap my MIL & FIL balik kampung yesterday.So,we have about 5 days to cherish the togetherness between us)..We have Japannese bread Gion that I bought yesterday at Mid Valley,roasted chestnust and a plain Rooibos Tea...have I told you guys that there will be a live show almost every time we are enjoying our meal at this dining table?There are a lot of squirrels in the orchard & morning is the most enjoyable time for them I would say..they will swing to & fro on the tree..passing from one and another branches..playing with their mate with that giggling sound..I'm so happy for them..rasa macam balance je ecosystem kat rumah aku ni.. And today,I have an experience to see what the idiom say, "sepandai pandai tupai melompat,akhirnya jatuh ke tanah juga.." Ada 2 ekor tupai tadi duk asyik main kejar-kejar..terjun dari satu dahan ke satu dahan..berkekek2 gelak..after doing 5-6 loops,suddenly ooooppppsssss..terjelepok jatuh ke tanah..aku gelak besar tgk..it was like me playing with them too..after a short while,the other partner was jumping & running here and there,looking for his playmate yg jatuh tadi tu...Dari jauh aku tahu dia macam risau je..muka macam dah tak happy je..kesian pulak aku tengok..rasa guilty pulak aku gelak2 tadi..ishh..I've been very emotional & sentimental di pagi hari ni..ermmmm..jiwa tiba-tiba memahami hati seekor tupai..hahaha

Slurrping my tea,I deeply wished in my heart,"moga-moga tupai tu selamat..and both of them will be happily playing again and so that,they will make myself smiling at the morning tea again".. 

Shopping di hujung bulan...

Hallooooooo...yesterday I went to Ariani & Munawwarah again with Kak Shila (my darling neighbour)..Arrived at Ariani at 10.20am,just nice coz the new stocks is coming around that time..The budget is not that much yesterday because Mr.Hubby is away and tak sempat nak tinggalkan allowance aku...sedih lah mak camni..so,have to spend last month punya allowance yg berbaki agak2 ciput tu..hehehe..

Looking for Black+Coloured awning but dah abis...Kak Shila was there last week & according to her,there were so many colours available..I've expected this,ye lah aku dtg a week after kan..so,I don't want to dissapoint myself,managed to get a Patterned+Golden Brown awning..nice,it's so nice..I couldn't paste a picture of it here coz the Infra Red & Bluetooth on this laptop is hampehhh..(can u imagine tahun bila punya laptop that I'm using???)..normally I used the other one,but again Mr.Hubby bring it together with him..bukan dia ada masa sgt nak surf,tapi biasalah..dengki ler tuu...

After that,run to Munawwarah..mcm biasa juga..most of nice colours were gone with the more shopaholic crazy women than me..hahaha..but...I got one Black+Shocking Orange awning..cannnteeeekkkk..Kak Shila dah muka masam..because none of available caught her interest..(padahal semua kaler dia dah ada..minah ni dah collect around 30 pcs dah tau despite of baru je bertudung about 3 month....crazy,that's the word)..

After lunch,went to Lot 10 kejap because in my last visit,I saw so many long shirts with long sleeves..cantik2..don't want to overspend (takdak duit dahhhhh), got me a nice patterned long shirt,best buy..rm59...ok ape..

I'll post the pcs after Mr.Hubby returning home ya..

Mdnight,Mr.Hubby called,

Him : Dah beli tudung?
Me : Dah.
Him : Berapa helai?
Me : 2 as promised..hehhe
Him : (a very soft voice) Ok,cukup cukulah tu...6 bulan lagi baru beli pulak ye...
Me : ....(melting)...Smiling.. (senyum ada makna tuuuuuu)

This is what we call,HIDAYAH..

Michael Jackson peluk Islam

LOS ANGELES: Penyanyi kontroversi Amerika Syarikat, Michael Jackson, memeluk Islam dan menukar namanya kepada Mikaeel, nama malaikat yang memberi rezeki. Superstar muflis berusia 50 tahun itu dilaporkan memakai jubah dan kopiah ketika mengucap dua kalimah syahadah di hadapan seorang imam dalam satu majlis di sebuah rumah rakannya di sini. Akhbar The Sun dalam laporannya semalam mendedahkan majlis itu diadakan beberapa hari sebelum Jackson atau 'Jacko' dihadapkan ke Mahkamah Tinggi London, selepas disaman oleh seorang putera Arab.

Alhamdulillah..to me,this is what we call,petunjuk & hidayah..Sesungguhnya Allah berhak memilih siapa sahaja yg dikehendakiNya untuk diberikan hidayah & nur..samada kita sangka atau tidak..semuanya berada di dalam rahsia-Nya..Kita sebagai Muslim yang sememangnya bersaudara antara satu sama lain seharusnya berdoa supaya Allah memberikan petunjuknya kepada mana2 sahaja kawan/musuh kita yg masih ingkar dengan perintahnya..dan sesudah doa kita dimakbulkan..ucapkanlah Alhamdulillah dan teruslah mendoakan kesejahteraannya..

Benarlah kata orang.."Jangan kita hanya mengeji orang yang melakukan kejahatan kerana mungkin sesaat sebelum dia mati dia diberikan kesempatan untuk bertaubat..Dan janganlah kita terlampau bangga dengan kebaikkan yang kita lakukan,kerana dikhuatiri kita mati sebelum benar2 bertaubat."

To Mikaeel Jackson,hope you will be a very good practising Muslim & maybe you will be granted with such sakinah & an-nur in perfecting your life with Islam..

Sesi bercerita..

I want to tell you something..
Something that people might don't know..

Whenever I met my old friends these days,they often said,"alahai kurusnya ko ujie,bila nak gemuk sikit ni.." or "makanlah banyak sikit..macam tak cukup mkn aje" or "dah kurus mcm ni tak payah lah nak diet lagi.."..and I was everytime,like..yeh yeah yeah..and sigh...

Dulu ye,aku mmg admit..I was thin like a piece of paper..jalan pun terhuyung hayang..angin kuat sikit kat luar aku dah takut,takut rebah kena tiup..hehehe..yes..but that was years ago,back in 2003/2004,i can still remember..Mana taknya,I was only 39kg by then..daripada my third year in Uniten until my second year of marriage..Tuhan je tahu,aku betul2 tak suka dgn weight aku time tu.macam2 gelaran aku dapat.."tulang","skeleton","meter parking" bla bla bla...nak shopping baju pun susah..just imagine XS is still roomy for me.. I was once see a doctor..and he carried out several test for me..but it was all went right..nothing's wrong..sampaikan last sekali doc tu suggest aku makan ubat cacing..kwang3x..ap,dia ingat aku ni main pasir hari2 ke...(of course I'm still taking Zentel once a year,eh org besar pun ada cacing lah..)

Puas aku buat macam2 untuk gain weight again..Weight Gain?dah & it didn't work..at all..Multivitamin?dah..hampehh jugak..Hinggalah suatu hari yg sunyi..jeng jeng jeng...I was back in Dungun time tu,looking for ubat resdung for my sis-in-law..ada orang kata,ubat resdung kat Dungun,happened to be kat kampung aku,is the best sinus treatment ever heard..so,cari punya cari..jumpa..mahal gak..it's a capsule of herbs..herbs apa..that's still a mystery.. So,aku pun bagi kat adik ipar aku,while after that me & Mr.Hubby went off to Cairo for about 10 days..and I never knew what happened at home..but after coming back from the trip..jeng jeng jeng lagi..

I still remember,I was at the door taking off my boots when I saw someone I hardly recognize,eating at the dining table..she was not facing me, but dia tu mmg chubby lah..nampak muka pun tembam je..and she was eating like nobody cares...And then she turned at me and MasyaAllah..apa dah jadi dgn adik ipar aku ni...baru aku gi 10 hari dia dah jadi BUNTAL????????Ouh my God...speechless..pastu aku pecah perut ketawa..she yelled,"ni semua kak uji punya pasal lah..org dah takleh stop makan je..seminggu dah naik 3 kg.."naper??aku tanya.."ubat resdung tu lah..resdung mmg baik..makan udang seafood apa pun tak sakit,tak gatal..tapi nafsu makan tak ingat dunia.."

I was like..""TOINGGGGG" kalau dlm cartoon tu kan ada gambar mentol atas kepala kan..dapat idea lah tu..aku tak kira..aku nak makan gak ubat resdung tu..Mr.Hubby kata..what for,u are not having any resdung symptoms..pedulik apa aku..it's all herbs anyway..no harm..yg pasti ubat tu leh buat i gemuk balik...dan jadilah aku pengamal ubat resdung yg setia..

2 weeks after that,we went off again..this time to Dubai & Beirut..I was still 39kg during departing for the trip..sampai kat Dubai,aku makan beriani sama byk macam nasi tambah kat rumah kita tu..and di tambah lagi dgn bermacam2 makanan yg aku jumpa kat tepi jalan..sampaikan Mr.Hubby kena urut jap kat McD..and then going to Beirut,aku melantak dalam aircraft mcm org lapar setahun tak makan..nasib baik 1st class tak ramai,so aku lah dgn bangganya menghabiskan all the food..semua crew hairan...sampai kat Beirut,aku masih ingat..Mr.Hubby beli seekor ayam panggang..tapi he was too tired to eat that night..hasilnya aku bangun tgh malam kat hotel tu..menketedarah ayam tu seekor sorang2 dgn lahapnya..lagak tak ubah macam orang bela pelesit..kahkahkahkahakh...dan begitu lah berlarutan setelah back to M'sia..makan makan makan..pegi KFC boleh order 2 dinner plate just for my own tummy tau..one loaf of spring roll tu aku makan sambil jalan2 je kat Subang Parade..dan paling haru,aku tgk chocolate rice dalam fridge pun,aku telan abis 2 botol..(chocolate rice tu mak mertua aku nak wat kuih raya..)

I didn't care,despite what people around me say about that herbs maybe contains steroid..tak mustahil..tapi aku suka..sebab it gave me energy..tgh tgh malam pun aku boleh basuh baju..(handwash tau)..dah badan pun cam voluptious lah skit..hehehehe..it went on until I reach 47kg,in just A MONTH!

Masa tu aku faham macam mana Incredible Hulk rasa bila dia jadik hijau..because I was feeling the same too I guess..masa nak gemuk tu,adussss urat2 badan nak mengembang kot..and it was so drastically happened,rasa mencucuk2 satu badan woo...Masa aku dah rasa sakit tu,aku stop makan..then slowly my weight down to 45kg..ok lah sikit..by right,that is my ideal weight pun..

And now,I'm in the range of 45-46kg..maintain...bulan posa ari tu takut jugak,turun sampai 42kg,tapi alhamdulillah 3rd raya dah naik balik jadi 46kg..hahaha..So now,I'm indeed in my ideal weight..suitable with my height..tu yang aku selalu tak paham naper orang selalu kata aku kurus...arrghhhhhh!!!! tensennnnn... Bagi orang yg kata aku tak makan,diet or whatsoever...come and watch me eating..still macam orang bela pelesit wa cakap luu....I am still taking heavy meals (nasi) at 12 night..breakfast/lunch/dinner dah semestinya nasi...kalau tak macam missing something..Kesimpulnnya,aku memang dah makan banyak..

Jadi kengkawan semua...nanti kalau jumpa,jgn lah kata aku kurus..aku dah ideal dah camni..in fact,lemak terkumpul jugak kat lower abdomen ni...yg tu korang tak nampak..hahahahaha..Ni,by the time aku finished my last line here..aku dah rasa lapar balik..and if I'm going downstairs,it's gonna be my 3rd time makan nasi...huarghhhhhh...

P/S:kalau nak bukti,tgk gambar dalam FB aku,masa gi Zurich,Cairo,Beirut,Dubai semua masa 39kg..apart from that..aku dah gemuk..especially masa kat New York tu..bulat giler muka..hehehehe